be less afraid and let go of useless doubts...

“We must never assume that which is incapable of proof” -unknown

........You can never truly know someone else’s intentions.

When you have no proof, it’s a judgment call, you have a choice to either assume the best, feel good and grateful; or assume the worst and feel bad and suspicious.

“Make finding the good in others a priority.” -zig ziglar

I often doubt my instincts especially when I meet someone new, we all do it or have done it… I think I know what I want or how I should feel, act…but my mind decides to split and take sides, creating a continuous nagging sense of internal conflict over what I actually want or should do.

But as I go along, I slowly learn there really isn’t such a thing as wrong.. Every event, person, life experience has come for a reason and for us to learn a lesson of some description… we just need to simply ENJOY the ride and be less afraid... 

“knowing that the net may not always be there, but the fall will never be far enough to do any lasting damage.” –tiny buddah

Relationships aren't supposed to be hard, but we, as women, tend to overanalyze, be over-emotional, and make things complicated when they should be simple. We need to take lessons from other species.

The female animals are always pursued by the male of the species. That's how it's supposed to be. That's how the male mind works. They try to get what they want. So let them do all the work and you'll reap all the benefits!
Love & happiness, rebecca.n

Some quotes Id like to leave you with…

• Everyone makes mistakes. Forgive yourself as easily as you’d forgive someone else.

• You have no control over who loves you. You have every bit of control over whom you love.

• Today if you doubt yourself, remember: You are far more powerful than you think. You just need to believe it!!!